Those recommendations that are presently keeping us safe also, from time to time, feel like they are robbing us of what is most important. This is difficult, but also an invitation for gratitude. Every time we wish we could do something, go somewhere, treat yourself, see someone you love, write it on a post-it note and put it in a jar. This crisis will one day end and, when it does, you will have a jar full of things to do for which you will be especially grateful.